What to do when no one will hire you?

Navigating the Employment Maze: Early Career Struggles

Hi, I'm Dan.


Before establishing my career, I encountered the common hurdle many face – the daunting task of finding a job. I want to share my early struggles and insights to help those who find themselves in similar situations.

Overcoming the 'Too Young, Too Inexperienced' Paradox

The Entry-Level Dilemma

During my student years, I faced repeated rejections in casual jobs in retail sales and hospitality. The paradox of being 'too young' or 'too inexperienced' for even entry-level roles was frustrating and disheartening.

Shifting the Focus from Rejection

This period taught me the importance of resilience and perspective in the job hunt.


It's easy to get discouraged by rejections, but they are part of the journey to employment.

Adopting a New Approach to Job Applications

The Game of Numbers

Gamifying the Experience

One strategy I adopted was gamifying the job application process. Instead of focusing solely on the outcome of getting a job, I set milestones like 'submitting 100 applications in 2 weeks.' This approach helped maintain motivation and brought a sense of accomplishment, regardless of immediate outcomes.

Focusing on the Process

By concentrating on the process rather than the result, I was able to bring my best self to each application.


This mindset shift is crucial – it helps in persevering through the challenges and increases the chances of eventual success.

Enhancing Employability: Leveraging LinkedIn and Skill Development

Utilizing LinkedIn as a Research Tool

Learning from Successful Profiles

A tactic I've found incredibly useful is utilizing LinkedIn for job hunting. It's not just about connecting; it's a goldmine for research. By examining the profiles of individuals in roles I aspired to, I could identify the skills and experiences that made them successful (How to Shine on LinkedIn).

Emulating Proven Paths

Focusing on what 'already works' can significantly reduce the friction in getting hired.


It's about understanding the skill sets and career trajectories that have led others to success and emulating these characteristics in your own career development.

Building a Strong Professional Network

Adopting a Long-term, Giving Approach

Networking as Community Building

My approach to networking is rooted in giving and playing the long game. This perspective is about building a community rather than seeking immediate benefits.


It's crucial to focus on the quality of connections and genuine relationship building.

The Value of Authentic Connections

Creating a robust network isn't about short-term gains. It's about establishing authentic connections that can provide support, advice, and opportunities over time. Entering the networking arena with a mindset of what you can contribute, rather than what you can extract, lays the foundation for a solid and supportive professional network.

Mastering the Art of Self-Presentation to Employers

Knowing Your Audience: The Key to Impression

Tailoring Your Approach

The most effective way I've found to present myself to potential employers is to thoroughly 'know your audience.' This means dressing appropriately for the role, understanding the company's culture, and familiarizing myself with their language and values.

Integrating Company Culture in Responses

During interviews, I make sure to weave the company's language and values into my responses.


This not only shows that I've done my homework but also demonstrates that my personality and values align with their organization (Aligning with Company Culture).

Maintaining Positivity in Prolonged Job Searches

Leaning on Your Support Network

Maintaining a positive outlook during a tough job hunt is challenging but crucial. One strategy that has worked for me is to lean on my support network.

Seeking Support and Feedback

Engaging in conversations about my experiences, seeking support, and soliciting feedback from various people have been essential in keeping my spirits high and staying motivated (The Power of Networking).


Don't underestimate the power of networking!

Perseverance and Adaptability in Job Hunting

In conclusion, navigating the job market requires a blend of strategic self-presentation, understanding your potential employer's culture, and maintaining a positive and proactive attitude. Remember, job hunting is not just about showcasing your skills; it's also about demonstrating how well you fit into a prospective employer's world. With the right approach, perseverance, and the support of your network, the right opportunity will eventually come your way.

Dan de Vries

I'm a career coach for young professionals, and I'm always looking for new ways I can help the younger generation to succeed in their careers!

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